We are not in relationships to own our significant others. We are here to experience each other by sharing our love with one another. When you are sharing who you are from a non-loving space it's time to retreat and re-examine your thoughts, feelings and actions. Whether it's within the relationship or not, you owe it to yourself to figure out how to get back to that loving space that was there at some point.
If you can't be with that person from a genuine loving space, it's time to release yourself and them. Use that time to reconnect with yourself and work on eliminating the barrier that's preventing you to act from a loving space.
I offer coaching sessions to work through this process: bit.ly/claritywork
With Love & Light,