I truly believe that we have power in our words, thought and emotions and that’s why I offer this exercise to you, so you can shift your vibrations to match your energy of desire for romantic love in your life.
I’ve personally written this letter when I was very clear about the type of partner and experience I wanted to have in a relationship. I’m happy to say that, he showed up and represents all that I wrote in my letter. I’ve also had some of my clients do the same exercise and, the results have been positive.
Gratitude Letter exercise:
I want you to write as if you already have this guy in your life and you are expressing how thankful you are.
Before you begin:
List all the characteristics you want in your partner
The experiences you want to have in your relationship
Describe scenarios you would love to have play out
Don't worry about being grammatically correct just write what comes up
These are a few things that I value in regards to relationships and gave gratitude for.
Dear My Significant Other,
“I’m grateful to have such a supportive partner in my life. When I’m having a hard day, it means so much to me when you set aside time to listen and talk to me about what’s going on and I want to say thank you. I can completely be myself around you and knowing that you accept me flaws and all, without judgement and not wanting to change me means the world to me; thank you for that. I was so unsure about how things were going to work with my son meeting you but when you were so cool about everything, I was so relieved and thankful for how smooth everything fell into place. Knowing that you are just as committed as I am when it comes to making things work is a breathe of fresh air and I don’t take it for granted, I’m very grateful. etc…”
I hope you get the idea. Now it’s your turn. Give thanks for the things that you want to experience in your next relationship now that you are Ready to Love. There's no limit to how long the letter should be, just write honestly and from the heart. Then continue to live your life trusting that what you desire and gave thanks for will show up.
With Love & Gratitude,